Initium PRIME 007 Nelsons Autobiography for Riverside

BY DANIEL COMP | OCTOBER 03, 2025

People repeat habits without noticing them. Portia Nelson's poem shows this in five chapters. You walk a trail and fall into a crevasse. You feel lost and blame others. It takes a long time to climb out. Next time, you see the crevasse but pretend it is not there. You fall again and still blame others. Then, you notice the crevasse clearly. Habit makes you fall, but you know it is your fault. You get out right away. After that, you walk around the crevasse on the same trail. Finally, you pick a different trail. This poem builds self-awareness. You spot your own repeating problems. You pause to look at your actions. You see reality without bias. You observe your thoughts. You make choices based on what you see. This turns old habits into new steps forward.

Nelson's Poem Tuned for Riverside

Portia Nelson’s Autobiography, through the Scotomaville metaphor of falling into a crevasse, illuminates self-awareness as the vital first step toward change. It portrays life’s recurring pitfalls - habits or challenges - as providential invitations to grow, encouraging explorers to recognize their own holes and choose new paths consciously. Like a climber pausing to assess a misstep, this narrative transforms stumbling blocks into opportunities for mastery, bridging the gap from unconscious repetition to intentional action. It offers a gentle yet profound guide for the Call to Adventure, fostering resilience and curiosity with Sherpa-like insight into personal transformation.

Personal Change Process in Riverside

This principle spots blind spots in repeating pitfalls. It reframes them as growth signals. A nudge from the Prodigal Son starts awareness. It turns falls into choices. You notice patterns first. Then you understand change. You act with Frankl's attitude. You gain strength from Philippians.

A son leaves home, falls into wasteful habits, realizes his mistakes, and returns to a welcoming father - showing awareness opens new paths.

Biblical Parable: The Prodigal Son (Luke 15:11-32)

The Prodigal Son sees his wasteful habits. He returns home in a humble way. This reframes pitfalls as paths to growth. It leads to family restoration. Jesus told this story to show grace. It fits human struggles with forgiveness. It links to Frankl's choice. It supports shifts in esteem to growth. It helps analyze patterns. It pushes for aware change.

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Everything can be taken from a man but one thing: the last of the human freedoms - to choose one's attitude in any given set of circumstances.

Viktor Frankl (Man's Search for Meaning, 1946)

Frankl survived the Holocaust. He chose his attitude in despair. This reframes pitfalls as chances for meaning. It builds agency. His logotherapy came from suffering. He showed resilience in hard times. It links the Prodigal Son to strength in Philippians. It supports shifts from esteem to growth. It helps analyze experiences. It pushes for purposeful action.

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I walk down another street.

Portia Nelson

Nelson's poem shows falling into the same hole many times. Then you choose a new street. It reframes pitfalls as steps to self-discovery. She worked as a therapist and author. Her work came from her own paths of awareness and change. It links Frankl's choice to the Prodigal Son. It supports growth to transcendence. It helps create paths. It pushes for conscious transformation.

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Challenge Your Personal Everest

The Greatest Expedition you'll ever undertake is the journey to self-understanding. For the real voyage of discovery consists not in seeking new lands but in seeing with new eyes. I invite you to challenge your Personal Everest!

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